My Real Self vs. My Ideal Self
It is human nature to feel discontents
and unfulfillments within ourselves, and I truly consider this statement
positioned beyond shadow of doubts. Due to these discontentments, I personally
generated a clear impression of my ideal self if I am going to modify some
characteristics and traits of mine that would somehow result to an optimal me.
How do my current real self and ideal self differ from each other?
In terms of my personality in
reality, I am such a type of person who actually do not care (or a person who
seems care less) to the occurrences happening in our country even how important
or how serious a certain issue is to our environment. It is absolutely a bad developed
oddity of mine, right? Another point is concerned with my academic status.
Gladly speaking, a real me genuinely set his academics on the top part of his
priorities. I am actually studying hard and whole-heartedly (at the same time)
because I knew that the actual measurement of one’s intellectual capacity is defined
by how you have acquired a certain knowledge with your heart and mind. The third
point is with regard to the physical appearance of my real self; you can
visualize me as an average man with the distinction of an average height (5 ft
3 in) and a typical teen-ager with acne in his face. On the last stand, my
point circumscribes with my interests. Talking about the negative side of it, I
have this little bit addiction on gaming but still considerably controlled. In
addition to my interests, I am a music enthusiast and I greatly appreciate
different genres of music.
In a more positive view wherein I
visualize myself as a perfect me (ideal self), some of my real self’s
characteristics are improved while some traits retained. In the scope of my
personality, I see myself as a person that is very aware on all important phenomena
in his country. With this awareness, he is also concern to some serious issues
revolving in his environment and he firmly believes that the righteous time
would come for him to be part of the resolution of the said conflicts even in
the smallest contribution he can do. In the next point concerning to my
academic status, I do want to retain the developed skills and traits of my real
self in which I can keep this focus in my academics. While in my physical
appearance, I just want to add a little bit height to my real self and reduce
some acnes in my face. On the last point, my ideal self can greatly manage his
time with respect to his interests, academics, family, friends, etc.
“Nothing is permanent.” It is a
fact that most of us have this imagination of their ideal selves. Some realists
would say that you can’t change anything God had given you. But in a more
strict reality, you can actually modify some part of yourself including your
personality, belief, etc. for a better self. It is not really the end to make yourself
perfect because nothing is really permanent.
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